Out of great chaos comes great BEAUTY.

Saturday, April 1, 2017

Things are moving!

This week I had my first meeting with an adoption worker.  I've had all the boxes checked off for things like criminal record checks, medicals, references etc...  Now I await my home study to begin.  I am told that it could start in a month or two if everything goes smoothly. 
The "smoothly" part is the challenge... I still have a fairly giant hurdle to overcome in order for our file to be picked up for a home study.  In order for them to start a home study we need to have a room for another child.  We still have just a two bedroom so this is where the challenge lies.  A few months ago we had a chance at getting a larger unit but it fell through.  I believe it fell through for the will of God.  It's a complicated tale, but I'll attempt to explain.
When we first moved into our home we were subsidized.  In order to be subsidized I needed to be within a certain income bracket.  At that point I was because the money I received for the girls was considered foster maintenance and that it was not considered income.  This was great because my rent was much lower than what is common around here even though my actual income was a little higher.  Last year when Jaylene and Julia were officially placed with me the support I received switched to Post Adoption Assistance.  Housing considers PAA to be like spousal support and chose to include it in my income, thus putting me above the low income bracket required for subside.  That month my rent went up nearly $400.  This past January when I was applying for the larger unit that was available I was made aware of something.  My PAA worker insisted that they should not be including my PAA income as income towards rent.  I looked into it further and Housing admitted to their fault and then waived my rent for a few months to make up the difference.  They also lowered it again.  Thank God!  Lowering it was great and in the long run it will pan out rather helpful as when I get a three or four bedroom it will still be much lower thank market prices.  The drawback is that since I only have two kids right now, who are both the same sex and under 13 I only qualify for a two bedroom.  Giving us a 3 bedroom would make us over housed if we do not have three children and they rarely over house people.  So this is the challenge.  I can't get a larger unit until I have Georgia and it is less likely our home study will be done so that I can get Georgia as long as we don't have a room just for her.  It's a bit of a chicken before the egg situation.  Not being subsidized isn't really an option as two thirds of my income isn't counted as income and thus puts below the minimum income for market prices. 
Our worker did tell me that families have gotten rather creative with this and that some parents have set up dining rooms as bedrooms so that they can give the child their own room.  The ministry understands that it is less likely a family will pay for an extra room when they could be on the waiting list for a number of years.  I suggested the idea of Jaylene and Julia's bed being put in my room so that Georgia can have their room.  She seemed to think that this might pass.  We'll see. 
After the complication of all of this and a little disappointment that this could hold our file back I was feeling a little glum today.  Then... of course God reminded me of his promise.  I walked into a store and this gleamed at me... 
He always keeps his promises.
          

Sunday, January 8, 2017

Progress... perhaps

Update
The major hold up in our adopting is that our home is too small.  We have a two bedroom home and need at least a 3 bedroom.  I have searched a bit to find out the possibilities in Vancouver.  Essentially unless I want to move into a cave with no living space, I need to stay in the area I am.  I would like to move into Vancouver because not only do I work there, but the girls go to school there and our church is there.  Currently we are about 20 min. of good traffic from their school.  I have decided to suck this up as otherwise it would mean at least doubling our rent to move closer.  I do love where we live.  I love the green space as our complex is surrounded by woods.  We even have frequent coyotes, bears, cougars and deer.  I also love our complex because it is quiet.  It is nice to step out of the concrete jungle into the peacefulness of our home community.
In a lot of ways I have left our needing a larger home in God's hands.  If he has ordained it for our family to grow, he will provide the home for it to grow in.
After nearly a year on a waiting list in our complex for a bigger home... we may have made some progress.
Here is where I need your help.  I need you to pray.  A unit is coming available in the next couple of months which from my understanding would be perfect for us.  It is a 3 bedroom, newly renovated, it has a carport and a back yard (other 3 bedroom units here don't).  It is also right next to a playground which would be perfect for Georgia to play at.
There are some complications with us getting the unit.  I live in a Housing complex where certain units are designated for subsidies and certain units are designated for market rent.  I currently pay a market price but use to be subsidized. This means that the unit I am in now is considered 'subsidized' even though I am not. It is a super complicated and a long story but in the end I have found out that I should still be considered as subsidized as last year they calculated my income wrong.  This is getting sorted out, but, in the mean time, it needs to be clarified if I qualify for the new unit and what the new unit is designated for. Confusing? Yup.
Please, just pray that this comes through.  I am placing it in God's hands, but I would also like to get this part of the adoption ball rolling.  We can't go much further until we move.

Also, I was made aware this week that we are one simple check mark away from being assigned an adoption worker in our area.  So, that's great.

Thanks
Melodie